The Bonesetter's Daughter focuses on generational trauma, mother-daughter relationships, and Chinese heritage. The story emphasizes character depth and personal struggles, not just identity factors. Race and culture are central, but not at the expense of narrative integrity. Forced representation and idealized protagonists are not prominent here.

Traditional family values and respect for heritage are core themes. While the book critically examines cultural expectations (especially regarding women), it ultimately honors familial bonds and cultural traditions. Masculinity and religion aren't targeted or mocked. Revisionist takes are minimal; the historical backdrop is authentically represented.

Alternative worldviews are respected. The story includes both traditional and modern perspectives, with characters disagreeing and growing. There's no outright villainization of tradition or dissent. The book is introspective rather than preachy.